Five Years, and Still Missing You

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Five Years and Still Missing You, a Tribute to My Mom

A Tribute to My Mom

Today marks the anniversary of my mother’s passing, five years ago. Instead of a regular post, today’s blog is a tribute to my mother and something all of you who have lost a parent can probably identify with.

Five years. It feels like a lifetime, and yet, in some ways, it feels like just yesterday. Today, the world feels a little dimmer, a little quieter, because it marks the anniversary of losing you, Mom.

I find myself thinking about all the things I wish I could share with you now. How much my son has grown and the new things he has learned. You were our rock, our steady hand, especially after my divorce. Your quiet strength was a lifeline for both of us. He misses your gentle presence, your unwavering patience.

You were more than just a grandmother; you were a partner, a confidante, a constant source of support. I remember all the adventures we had, both when I was a child, an adult and a mother. You were always up for anything – a trip to the park, a afternoon at home in the backyard, or just a simple cup of coffee and a chat.

I remember how your eyes would light up whenever you saw a dog. You always had to stop and give them a pat, a kind word. Your love for animals was so pure, and I know our dogs miss your gentle touch as much as I do. You helped me so much with them.

The last few years were so hard, watching your health decline. Heart disease is a cruel thief. But even as your body weakened, your spirit remained strong. You never complained. You always managed a smile for a photo. And even when words were difficult, you listened. You always listened. Over a cup of coffee, just like always, you were there.

I remember those quiet moments, just sharing stories, thoughts, and feelings. You had a way of making me feel heard, understood, and loved, without saying much at all. Your presence was a comfort, a reassurance.

Today, I light a candle for you, Mom. I’ll look through old photos, remembering your smile, your kindness, your unwavering support. I’ll think about all the things you taught me, the lessons you instilled in me, the love you showered upon me and my son.

The world feels a little emptier without you, but your love lives on in my heart, in my memories, in the way I try to be a good mother, a good person.

Thank you, Mom, for everything. You are missed, deeply and always.

With love and light, until we meet again ❤

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